Fairhaven (2013)

This modest film has the feel of "Manchester By the Sea," but without the over-the-top melodrama. Set in a small New England village, the film follows the lives of three buddies reunited at the time of the death of one of their dads. There are some touching and heartfelt moments in this well-crafted slice of life of dysfunctional New Englanders.We see the action primarily through the eyes of Jon, the former high school quarterback and erstwhile writer. Jon is about to give up his fishing vessel, the Mandy Lynn, and commit himself to full-time writing. While Jon has the touch of the poet, Sam is a hard-working realtor, who was divorced from Kate, another one of the close connections to all the characters from high school. Sam is dedicated to supporting his daughter, but struggles with loneliness and must face an episode of premature ejaculation in a long night on the Mandy Lynn.Dave is the playboy who left town. After a failed stint in Las Vegas, he is now residing in Arizona. It is Dave's father who died and for whose funeral he has reluctantly returned to the Massachusetts fishing village. In a moment of confessional, Dave opens up to Jon about the affair he once had with Kate. Jon is outraged because he feels that the Dave's affair was an affront to Sam, despite the fact that Sam and Kate were separated at the time. A shortcoming of the film was to unconvincingly depict women who fall for Dave and become emotionally enmeshed with essentially a loser. One of the more interesting scenes was a therapy session, wherein Jon lets loose a rare outburst of anger in an act of self-loathing. As a gifted writer with a New Age girlfriend, it puzzling why he seemed so disconnected from himself. It is also not clear if his therapy will make a difference. One also wonders how he is able to pay for a therapist. One of the strengths of the film is that we are never given pat answers to the dysfunction in the characters' lives. We do not learn why Dave left town, other than his father was a philanderer. We never learn what was the emotional connection between Kate and Dave. We never learn why the women flock to him. Those deep, dark secrets appear to be known only to the Mandy Lynn.

Watching FAIRHAVEN was everything I love about Tom O'Brian's theatrical plays come to life a million times over with all of the elements fitting together: lovely shots, poetic scenery, authentic acting, heartfelt pacing and musical score combined to remind me of what acting coach Wynn Handman would refer to as "a perfect pitch and tone". Tom's character was an endearing, curious, mysterious and fun protagonist. I understand what he means about Tom Brady! I love the story and how the film captures the way that we are all ever unraveling from, entwining in and learning from the events in our lives. We were riveted and while I knew it would be great, I was so excited and surprised by how great. My boyfriend watched in silence the whole time and when it was over he said, "that was impeccable… perfect". He said he loved it and wants to watch it again. We were both moved. I have been spending more time this past year in my hometown than I have spent in 26 years... I related so much to the relationships, internal and external landscapes and the heartbreaking beauty of watching life expand all of us no matter where we stay or travel to. Movie made with excellence!

As a resident of the town this movie is named for I wasn't sure what to expect, other than recognizing the local scenery. What I got was a beautifully told tale of what it means to be a man in the Peter Pan world we live in. I could not take my eyes off the screen or the actors' amazingly understated performances. It is a quiet film, and if you don't look carefully or with the right kind of eyes you may think nothing much is happening. However, if you are a man on the wrong side of 30 and there is nothing left of childhood but memories then you will be hit with every possible emotion watching these three guys over the course of a few days.If you have ever struggled with your dreams of youth maybe never being fulfilled, or with what it means to be a father, or if you have ever hurt the one you love the most because you knew they were better off without the mess you are...I could go on and on. I related with all three of the main characters so much. Also, for a movie about men made by men it must be stated that the women in this movie are all lovely and multi dimensional. I think it is easy to forget about women, or make them window dressing in such a film, but all of the best scenes in the film involve the strong male facade gently cracking under the gaze of the fairer sex.I will just say that the film is honest and true and that is all you can ever hope for in any work of art. Maybe it was simply a case of me being in a certain place, looking with certain eyes that made me connect so strongly but this film stayed with me a long, long time afterwords. Buy this film. Rent this film on iTunes. Support this type of work because I want to see more films like this. A quiet film with purpose. We deserve it.

I saw Fairhaven the Movie at the Provincetown film festival's closing night's screening and I've been replaying portions in my mind for a week now. The film's lure for me is both personal and aesthetic since I'm a town native though I live here only part time. I was piqued by the film's premise once I heard of its creation and looked forward to viewing an outsider's take on my hometown. I never expected, however, to be so affected by a break out piece that was filmed in 18 days on a shoestring budget during a snowy, frozen January. The film is a powerful depiction of the complicated love/hate relationships engendered by small town life. Its treatment of the universal themes of friendship, family, love and personal fulfillment are told through characters who eerily ring true. I may be a generation away from them, and the details may differ, but I recognize those characters and their situations because they resemble people who walk the streets of Fairhaven every day. These are people I know. There is a duality to life here; contrasts and contradictions reign supreme. Like Jon, the townspeople have dreams that are fed by a strong sense of history and a place that can be wistfully romantic (a harbor that has been full of ships and of men who have sailed "away" for hundreds of years for example) yet are starved by limited opportunities or the brutal reality of jobs in the fishing or maritime industries. The lure of the outside world versus the cocoon of small town life creates a recurring struggle for many. My dad went to sea as an officer with the Merchant Marine for forty years. My mother's two brothers were commercial fisherman. One uncle was lost in Newport harbor in 1979 and his name is on a plaque at the Seaman's Bethel in New Bedford. As a young girl imbued with the history of this area, I never dreamed I'd have an uncle whose name would appear on the plaques that Herman Melville writes of in Moby Dick. Whenever I visit the Bethel with visitors, I feel an odd clash of literary and real life and it's very disturbing. Until that incident, I assumed my dad and my uncles would always return home to Fairhaven. Many in this area experience its pain as well as its beauty in both a historical and modern tear of the heart. This film has that Fairhaven psyche down pat. Like Sam, Dave and Kate, people become embroiled in romantic relationships that overlap each other. Secrets become necessities in a small town, seemingly archaic in this time of facebook and confessional openness, but necessities nonetheless. In the Fairhaven I know, everyone has secrets; everyone has ghosts. And if those secrets are revealed, all hell breaks loose. The clash between Jon and Dave (Chris Messina's character who reluctantly returns home for his estranged father's funeral) shows the irony of complicated relationships that can threaten to destroy yet buoy oneself at the same time. Dave's self-destructive edginess serves to crystallize Jon's pathway. The contrast between Dave's darkness/self-banishment and the lightness of a nurturing connected community rings true. Because it is a seafaring town, the pull of home is, indeed, a strong one here. Personal histories can cause one either to root to the place or to yank oneself away. There is a palpable conflict between those of us who have remained and those who have "gotten away." And there are many of us who got away only to pine for the place each day we are gone and who never feel so right as we do at home in Fairhaven. It is a special place. This film gets that. The performance by the cast in their portrayal of these realistic characters is exemplary. Chris Messina, Tom O'Brien, Sarah Paulson, Rich Sommer et al are truly gems of the industry. The acting is often naturally understated. Early in the film, when Kate's ex-husband Sam states, "Dave's back in town," Sarah Paulsen's character simply replies, "Oh yeah?" but her hesitation, nervous gulp and tight smile imply a personal history there that hints of things to come. Maryann Plunkett's warm and down to earth portrayal as Jon's mum is reminiscent of the open friendliness that pervades the real Fairhaven. Rich Sommer's Sam has the sweet good guy nailed. Naively positive in the wake of heartbreak, denying himself while struggling to raise his daughter, he is conceivably the most mature of them all. Peter Simonite's cinematography is superb; it's the vehicle that reveals Fairhaven the town as a character in its own right. Shots of the harbor at night for example, and the frozen low tide to Angelica Rock at Wilbur's Point illuminate the duplicity of the place-its haunting beauty compromised by the freezing weather. I loved the Lincoln Park inclusion (especially since it's being torn down as I write-the film immortalized it for us). It's a poignant metaphor. I love that they end up partying on a commercial boat (so scary to walk those boards to the deck at night in the middle of the winter) even though not many people (okay probably no one) would have motored out into the harbor (too costly and dangerous at night with someone's livelihood). Boats are often the post "last call" party spots and play a large role in peoples' lives here. But what I love most of all about the film is that there's not a tidy wrap-there are stores of unfinished business-just as there is in real life. Yet in the wake of that-friendships endure. In the film just as in real life, we politely ignore the layers of back stories and continue to interact and relate to each other because we have a history or because we love each other or because we have no choice, but we do it most of all, because, in such a small compelling town-we simply need each other.